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GETTING
A LIFE
Strategies
for Joyful
& Effective Living
By Copthorne
Macdonald
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The original Hounslow
Press edition of Getting a Life is now out of print. A new trade
paperback edition was published in October 2001 by iUniverse.com, and
is now available through local book stores (via the book distributor Ingram)
or view online
purchase options.
ISBN 0-595-20246-2 6" x 9"
$11.95 U.S.
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Excerpts from the book:
Table of Contents Introduction
Chapter 1 --- Getting a Life
About Getting a
Life:
This book is about crafting
full, rich, creative, and enjoyable lives for ourselves — lives that are
significant, lives that contribute in some way to the world around us.
Getting a Life is rooted in the idea that some steps toward
wisdom require nothing more than a fresh look at common life situations,
nothing more than an appreciation of the difference between skillful and
unskillful ways of dealing with those situations. Its premise is that
a few truths about everyday life, if pointed out and taken seriously, can
make a significant difference in the quality of day-to-day living and our
enjoyment of life.
Getting a Life
is about applied, practical wisdom — the kind of wisdom that Coleridge called
“Common sense in an uncommon degree.” To Copthorne Macdonald, wisdom
comprises a mix of extraordinary attitudes, value-based ways of
being, and ways of seeing. He takes the position that growing
wiser is not something than must be left to the whims of fate; wisdom can
be developed intentionally. Getting a Life reinforces our
best intuitions and intentions, leads us to some fresh insights about everyday
life, and helps us develop that uncommon degree of common sense that
is practical wisdom.
From reviews of Getting
a Life:
Is Copthorne Macdonald
a Renaissance Man, or a Millennium Man? Close on the heels of his Toward
Wisdom: Finding Our Way to Inner Peace, Love & Happiness, this versatile
electrical-engineer-turned-sage has come up with Getting a Life: Strategies
for Joyful and Effective Living . . . . it is imbued with a nineties
sensibility, some very good advice and a certain universality.
Atlantic
Books Today
This book doesn't deal with the ethereal or intangible, it deals with using
the path to wisdom — paying close attention to everything we do — and charting
out a plan for our lives that could allow us to be the most that we can
be.
The
Guardian
Macdonald stresses
his belief that wisdom and contentment develop incrementally. There are
no quick fixes; like physical conditioning, mental and emotional health
is a gradual process. More specifically, Macdonald recommends that people
run "experiments" to determine which things give them pleasure in life,
what skills they have and how best to use them. As he explains it, "What
I am advocating is getting in touch with what's really important to us,
and what our strengths are."
Part of this, he explains,
is meeting our basic needs: physical health, security, belonging and self
esteem. Once these needs are met, a person can experience a "meta-need —
the desire to realize one's purpose and full potential, "a deep need for
our lives to matter."
In his book and his
life, Macdonald's primary goal is to promote the concept of wisdom in our
culture. A cynic might invoke the old cliché that Cop's theories and a dime
could buy us a cup of coffee (and not even that thanks to inflation), but
Macdonald's reply is swift and emphatic: "Wisdom and a dime will get us
the world we need."
The
Buzz
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